Most Coaches Teach. In-Demand Coaches Shift Beliefs.

Most coaches create content that teaches at their audience.

They explain.

They educate.

They give tips.

They show people what to do.

And on the surface, that sounds like the right move.

Because if you’re a coach, consultant, expert, or service provider, you probably believe your job is to help people.

So naturally, when you create content, you think:

“Let me teach them something valuable.”

But here’s the problem…

Teaching does not convert clients.

Belief shifting does.

And one of the most effective ways to shift somebody’s beliefs is through storytelling.

Not random storytelling.

Not “let me tell you about my day” storytelling.

Not “here’s a cute little lesson from my morning coffee” storytelling.

I’m talking about strategic stories that move people from:

“I don’t know if this is for me…”

To:

“Holy crap. This is exactly what I need.”

That’s the difference.

Because right now, we are living in an AI world.

Unless you’re living under a rock, you know this.

Information is everywhere.

People can pull out their phone, open up ChatGPT, Claude, or whatever flavor of AI they like, and they can find information in seconds.

They can create content in seconds.

They can ask AI for a workout plan.

They can ask AI for a meal plan.

They can ask AI for a business strategy.

They can ask AI for content ideas.

So information by itself is no longer that valuable.

It’s commoditized.

It’s everywhere.

And if your entire content strategy is just:

“Here are three tips…”

“Here are five mistakes…”

“Here’s how to…”

Then you’re competing with an infinite amount of free information.

And that is a losing game.

Why Teaching Alone Doesn’t Convert

When you teach somebody a tactic, you might help them understand something.

But nothing fundamentally changes inside of them.

They may think:

“That was helpful.”

They may even like your post.

They may comment, “Great reminder.”

They may save it.

They may share it.

But that does not mean they are moving closer to buying.

Because the thing that drives action is not just information.

It’s belief.

Think about this.

Most people already know a lot of what they “should” do.

People trying to lose weight already know they should eat better and move more.

Business owners already know they should create content, follow up, sell, and build systems.

Coaches already know they need to market consistently.

But knowing is not the same as believing.

And believing is not the same as acting.

There’s a whole chain reaction that happens underneath the surface.

You have:

• Identity

• Belief system

• Thoughts

• Feelings

• Actions

• Results

Your identity shapes your beliefs.

Your beliefs shape your thoughts.

Your thoughts shape your emotions.

Your emotions influence your actions.

And your actions create your results.

So if you want to create a deeper transformation in someone’s life, you can’t just throw more information at them.

You have to change what they believe.

And in marketing, when you can get someone to think differently…

When you can get them to see their problem differently…

When you can literally shift their belief…

They start taking different action.

That’s when people start reaching out.

That’s when people start asking questions.

That’s when people start saying:

“Okay, how do I do this?”

And that’s when your content starts creating clients.

Likes Are Not Leads

This is where a lot of coaches get stuck.

They post content.

They get likes.

They get some engagement.

Maybe they get a few followers.

Maybe people tell them their content is good.

But it still feels like pulling freaking teeth to get qualified leads consistently and predictably on calls.

And then when they finally do get people on calls, those people are loaded with objections.

“I need to think about it.”

“I need to talk to my spouse.”

“I don’t have the money.”

“I’m not sure if now is the right time.”

“I’ve tried stuff like this before.”

And the reason that happens is because the content never did the heavy lifting.

The content never shifted the beliefs.

It educated them, but it didn’t move them.

It informed them, but it didn’t pre-sell them.

It gave them tips, but it didn’t change the way they see the problem.

And that is why storytelling is so powerful.

Because stories do what information alone cannot do.

Stories bypass resistance.

Stories create emotional connection.

Stories make the invisible visible.

Stories help people see themselves inside the problem and the solution.

And when you use stories the right way, you can shift beliefs before somebody ever gets on a call with you.

The Eating Healthy vs. Eating Right Example

Let me give you a simple example from weight loss.

I know this space really well.

I built and sold a gym in South Florida.

I built a multiple six-figure online fitness business.

And I’ve been coaching, consulting, selling, and working inside the health and fitness industry for about 15 years.

So I’ve seen this over and over again.

A lot of weight loss coaches will say:

“I’m going to teach you how to eat healthier.”

“I’m going to teach you how to work out.”

“I’m going to teach you mindset.”

And sure, that sounds fine.

But nothing actually changes in the person.

Because someone might hear “eat healthy” and think that means eating 300 calories a day, starving themselves, cutting everything out, and living off lettuce and sadness.

Then they wonder why they have no energy.

They wonder why their hormones are jacked up.

They wonder why they’re not getting results.

They wonder why they’re doing “everything right” but still feel stuck.

So if you come in and say:

“Hey, you need to eat healthy.”

That doesn’t shift anything.

They already believe that.

But if you come in and say:

“The problem is not that you need to eat healthy. The problem is that you need to eat right.”

Now you’re changing the belief.

You’re creating a new frame.

You’re showing them that their current way of thinking is incomplete.

And then you explain what “eating right” actually means.

Now they start having insights.

They start having ahas.

They start thinking:

“Wait… maybe I’ve been looking at this wrong.”

And once that happens, they become way more likely to ask:

“How do I do this?”

That is the power of belief shifting.

You’re not just giving them a tip.

You’re changing the lens they see the problem through.

And when the lens changes, the action changes.

The Four Core Stories That Pre-Sell Your Dream Clients

There are four core stories you can use in your everyday content and your weekly content to start shifting beliefs and getting more ideal clients pre-sold.

You can use these stories individually.

You can also combine them in one video, one post, one email, one workshop, or one sales asset.

These stories are:

1. The Backstory

2. The Struggle Story

3. The Case Study Story

4. The Belief-Shifting Story

Let’s break them down.

Story #1: The Backstory

The first story is what I call the Backstory.

Some people call this your origin story.

That’s fine.

But I like calling it the backstory because, to me, this story should explain why you teach what you teach today.

It answers the question:

“Why do you believe in this solution?”

It connects your past experience to your current offer.

It shows people why you’re not just teaching some random thing you pulled from a book, a podcast, or a ChatGPT prompt.

You lived something.

You struggled with something.

You discovered something.

You created something from that experience.

And now you help people with that thing.

That is your backstory.

My Fitness Backstory

For example, when I first got started in fitness, I was a firefighter.

I was 53 pounds overweight.

Then I got electrocuted in a house fire and almost died.

That was a massive wake-up call for me.

I remember trying to lose weight and figure all this stuff out, but I couldn’t.

My back was against the wall.

I didn’t know what to do.

And for a long time, I ended up getting myself skinny fat.

I lost some weight, but I didn’t have the body I wanted.

I didn’t have muscle.

I didn’t feel strong.

I didn’t really know what I was doing.

I remember thinking:

“Dude, how do I actually get lean and muscular?”

I was naive.

I was frustrated.

I was trying to figure it out.

Then one day, I stumbled across a guy named Nate Miyaki.

I think that was his name.

He had this thing called the Island Diet.

The basic idea was that you fasted in the morning and then ate rice, protein, and vegetables at night.

And I did that for three or four months.

Then one day, I woke up and started seeing abs.

And I was like:

“Holy crap. What is going on?”

That was an epiphany moment for me.

Later, when I had my fitness offer, I would tell that story because it led to my solution at the time, which I called Flex Fuel.

Flex Fuel was closely modeled after that style of eating.

So when I told that story, people understood why I believed in it.

They saw my frustration.

They saw my struggle.

They saw the moment the lightbulb went off.

And then they could understand why I created the solution I was teaching.

That is the point of the backstory.

It’s not just “here’s my life story.”

It’s:

“I went through this specific struggle, had this specific realization, and that is why I teach this specific solution.”

Your Backstory Sells “Why You” and “Why Now”

Your backstory helps people buy into you.

It answers:

• Why should I listen to you?

• Why do you teach it this way?

• Why does this matter?

• Why are you different?

• Why should I pay attention now?

And the more multi-sensory you can make the story, the better.

Don’t just say:

“I struggled with weight loss, then I figured it out.”

That’s boring.

Bring people into it.

What did it feel like?

What were you thinking?

What were you frustrated by?

What had you tried?

What moment made you realize something had to change?

What was the epiphany?

What did you discover?

Your backstory should help people feel the transformation.

Because when people feel the transformation, they start to believe transformation is possible for them too.

Story #2: The Struggle Story

The second story is arguably the most important.

Honestly, this one could probably go first.

This is what I call the Struggle Story.

This is something I teach inside my Magic Messaging Makeover process, which is my unique way of helping coaches clarify their messaging.

And the struggle story is vital.

Because if you cannot clearly articulate what your dream client is currently experiencing, your content will feel generic.

It will sound like everybody else.

It will be surface-level.

And surface-level messaging does not move people.

You Need to Know Your Dream Client Deeply

To create a powerful struggle story, you need to know your dream client.

Not your niche.

Your dream client.

There’s a huge difference.

A lot of people say things like:

“I help busy professionals.”

And I’m like:

Homie, that’s like 75,000 sub-niches.

That is way too broad.

A busy professional could be a corporate executive.

A nurse.

A teacher.

A real estate agent.

A mom running a business from home.

A CEO.

A doctor.

Those are all very different people with very different struggles.

So you need to hone in.

Think about one specific person.

Imagine you had a Neuralink in their brain and a video camera following them around all day.

What would you see?

What are they thinking?

What are they saying to themselves?

What are they complaining about to their friends?

What symptoms are they experiencing?

What are they secretly embarrassed by?

What are they frustrated with?

What have they already tried?

What do they believe is the problem?

What are they doing that is not working?

That is the struggle story.

And the more clearly you can articulate it, the more your audience feels like:

“How is this person inside my head?”

That’s when your message starts to hit.

Articulate the Problem Better Than They Can

There’s a famous marketing idea often attributed to Jay Abraham:

“If you can articulate the problem better than your client can, they automatically assume you have the solution.”

That is the goal.

You want your dream client reading or watching your content thinking:

“Yes. That’s exactly what I’m going through.”

Not:

“Cool tip.”

Not:

“That’s helpful.”

But:

“Whoa. This person gets me.”

Because when they feel understood, they start to trust you.

And when they trust you, they become open to your solution.

What Goes Into the Struggle Story?

The struggle story includes things like:

• Their current situation

• Their daily frustrations

• Their emotional pain

• Their limiting beliefs

• Their failed attempts

• Their symptoms

• Their complaints

• Their fears

• Their identity conflict

• The actions they keep taking that do not work

For example, in weight loss, someone might believe:

“My genetics are bad.”

“My metabolism is broken.”

“I just need to diet harder.”

“I need more discipline.”

“I need to eat less.”

“I need to do more cardio.”

In business, a coach might believe:

“I just need more leads.”

“I need to post more.”

“I need a better funnel.”

“I need to copy what that guru is doing.”

“I need to be more consistent.”

But often, those beliefs are not the real problem.

They are symptoms of the problem.

Your job is to know the struggle well enough that you can show them what’s actually going on.

That’s where belief shifting starts.

Story #3: The Case Study Story

The third story is Case Study Storytelling.

This is where you tell the story of a client.

But you don’t just say:

“Sarah lost 20 pounds.”

Or:

“John made $10K.”

That’s not a story.

That’s a result.

A case study story shows:

• Who the client was before

• What they were struggling with

• What they had tried

• What they believed

• What shifted

• How your solution helped them

• What result they created

• Who they became in the process

That is what makes it powerful.

What American Ninja Warrior Taught Me About Storytelling

I learned a lot about storytelling when I competed on American Ninja Warrior.

Quick sidebar if you don’t know how that works.

Anybody can apply.

You submit a three-minute video to the production team.

And that video has to show three things:

• Your energy

• Your skill set for the sport

• Your story

And when I was learning how to create a powerful submission video, one of the producers, Peter, gave me a lot of tips.

Those tips really stuck with me.

And I later applied them to my marketing.

One of the biggest lessons was this:

Make the story as multi-sensory as possible.

Pull people into it.

Don’t stay surface-level.

Don’t speak in vague generalities.

Use specific, concrete details.

Because details make the story real.

Details make people see it.

Details make people feel it.

And the more real it feels, the more powerful it becomes.

The Story of Holly

Let’s say I was telling a weight loss case study story about my client Holly.

I wouldn’t just say:

“Holly tried a bunch of diets and nothing worked.”

That’s too vague.

I would say something like:

Holly had tried Weight Watchers.

She had tried Atkins.

She had tried Whole30.

She went to the doctor.

Her doctor put her on some kind of peptide.

She hired a personal trainer.

She was going to the gym three to four times a week.

She was doing 45 to 50 minutes of cardio every single day.

She was walking around her neighborhood.

She was trying to eat healthy.

But nothing was working.

And because she was in her late 30s, she started believing:

“Maybe this is just genetics.”

“Maybe this is just how life is now.”

“Maybe my body is just different.”

That is the struggle story inside the case study.

Then I would transition into the solution.

Holly saw some of my posts on Instagram and reached out.

I got her started with our Stubborn Fat Solution.

We got her on her Flex Fuel nutrition protocol.

We got her doing metabolic strength training so she could ignite her metabolism and start shedding fat.

And we helped her work through some of the food anxieties that were shackling her.

Then I would walk through the process and the results she started getting.

Now that story is doing multiple things at once.

It is showing the struggle.

It is shifting beliefs.

It is demonstrating the unique solution.

It is creating proof.

And most importantly, it is helping the right person see themselves in Holly.

Make Sure the Case Study Matches Your Dream Client

This may sound obvious, but I’ve seen people butcher this.

If you tell a client story that does not resonate with your dream client, don’t tell it.

It might be a great result.

It might make you look credible.

But if your dream client cannot see themselves in that story, it will not create the connection you want.

The best case study stories are not just impressive.

They are relatable.

Your dream client should hear the story and think:

“That sounds like me.”

That is what makes the proof land.

Story #4: Belief-Shifting Stories

The fourth story is the Belief-Shifting Story.

This is where you intentionally tell a story designed to move someone from an old belief to a new belief.

This is the whole game.

Because again, if you want more pre-sold clients, you have to shift beliefs.

You have to help people see:

• The old way they’ve been thinking

• Why that old way is keeping them stuck

• The new way they need to think

• Why your solution makes sense now

This is where metaphors, analogies, and parables become extremely powerful.

A belief-shifting story does not always have to be your personal story.

It does not always have to be a client story.

It can be a metaphor.

It can be an analogy.

It can be a simple visual that makes the lesson click.

The Gas Tank Analogy

Let’s go back to the eating healthy versus eating right example.

A lot of people trying to lose weight think they need to eat healthy.

So they start dieting.

But in their mind, dieting means eating 300 to 600 calories a day.

They are starving themselves.

They feel like crap.

They have no energy.

Their body is stressed out.

And they wonder why they’re not getting results.

So instead of just saying:

“You need to eat more calories.”

You can tell a story.

You could say:

Imagine going to the gas station before a 10-hour road trip with your family.

You pull up to the pump.

You’re about to drive all day.

And you put $5 of gas in the tank.

Then you get on the road.

How far do you think you’re going to make it?

Probably not very far.

Well, that’s what happens inside your body when you’re eating 300 to 600 calories a day.

You’re trying to take your body on a 10-hour road trip with $5 of fuel.

But here’s the difference.

Your car can just run out of gas.

Your body can’t.

So your body adapts.

It starts trying to protect you.

It stores fat.

It breaks down muscle tissue.

It down-regulates your metabolism.

Over time, it can start jacking up your hormones.

And suddenly, the person hears that and thinks:

“Holy crap. That makes so much sense.”

That is a belief-shifting story.

You took an old belief:

“I need to eat less to lose weight.”

And you shifted it to a new belief:

“I need to fuel my body correctly to lose fat.”

That is way more powerful than a tip.

Because now the person sees the problem differently.

How These Stories Work Together

The best part is that these stories do not have to live in isolation.

You can use them separately.

But you can also combine them.

Your backstory can include a belief shift.

Your case study can include a struggle story.

Your belief-shifting story can include a client example.

Your struggle story can set up your unique solution.

They all work together.

For example, in one video, you could say:

“Most coaches think their content problem is that they need to post more. But that’s not actually the issue. The real issue is that their content is teaching instead of shifting beliefs.”

That sets up the belief shift.

Then you could tell the struggle story:

“They’re posting every day, giving tips, sharing value, making reels, writing captions, maybe even getting likes and comments, but nobody is reaching out ready to buy.”

Then you could tell a quick backstory:

“I know because I used to do this too. Back when I was building my own online fitness business, I was posting workouts, tips, and motivation, but it wasn’t consistently turning followers into clients. Then I started noticing the posts that actually created buyers were not the ones that taught the most. They were the ones that shifted how people saw their problem.”

Then you could tell a case study:

“One of my clients was doing the same thing. She was posting educational content every day, but her audience wasn’t moving. Once we rebuilt her messaging around belief shifts and created a content sequence that moved people from problem-aware to solution-aware, she started getting better leads reaching out.”

Then you land the new belief:

“So the goal is not just to create more content. The goal is to create content that changes how people think.”

That is powerful.

Because now your content is not random.

It has a job.

It is moving people.

Your Content Should Bridge the Gap

At the highest level, your content should bridge the gap between an old belief and a new belief.

That’s it.

Your dream client is currently stuck in an old way of seeing the problem.

They believe something that is causing them to take the wrong actions.

Your job is to help them see a new way.

Old belief:

“I need to post more.”

New belief:

“I need messaging that shifts beliefs and creates demand.”

Old belief:

“I need more leads.”

New belief:

“I need better pre-sold leads.”

Old belief:

“I need to educate my audience.”

New belief:

“I need to influence the beliefs that drive buying decisions.”

Old belief:

“I need to eat less.”

New belief:

“I need to eat right.”

Old belief:

“I need more discipline.”

New belief:

“I need the right system.”

When you can do that consistently, your content starts working differently.

It stops being noise.

It stops being generic.

It stops being another piece of information in a sea of information.

It becomes a conversion asset.

Why This Matters More Than Ever

Your message matters now more than ever.

Because we are in a world where people are drowning in content.

They are not lacking information.

They are lacking clarity.

They are lacking conviction.

They are lacking belief.

And if your content does not create belief, it will get consumed and forgotten.

People will scroll by.

They’ll like it.

They’ll maybe think it was helpful.

But they won’t move.

And that’s the whole point.

You don’t just want people to consume your content.

You want them to move.

You want them to think differently.

You want them to see their problem differently.

You want them to understand why what they’ve been doing has not worked.

You want them to believe there is a better way.

You want them to see your solution as the bridge.

That is what creates pre-sold clients.

Not more information.

Not more tips.

Not more random posting.

Belief-shifting content.

Strategic storytelling.

Messages that move people.

The Simple Storytelling Filter

Before you post your next piece of content, ask yourself:

“What belief is this shifting?”

Not:

“What am I teaching?”

Not:

“What tip am I giving?”

Not:

“What content category is this?”

Ask:

“What old belief is my dream client currently stuck in, and what new belief do I want them to adopt?”

Then choose the story that helps you make that shift.

If they need to believe you understand them, use the struggle story.

If they need to believe your solution works, use a case study story.

If they need to believe you are the right guide, use your backstory.

If they need to break an old belief, use a belief-shifting metaphor or analogy.

That’s how you start creating content that actually converts.

Final Thought

Most coaches are teaching.

In-demand coaches are shifting beliefs.

And that is the difference.

Because when you shift beliefs, you don’t have to chase as hard.

You don’t have to handle as many objections.

You don’t have to convince people from scratch on calls.

Your content has already done the work.

It has already helped them see the problem.

It has already helped them understand the cost of staying stuck.

It has already helped them believe in a new way forward.

And by the time they reach out, they’re not just curious.

They’re pre-sold.

That’s the power of storytelling.

That’s the power of belief shifting.

And that’s why your message matters now more than it ever has before.

Who Is Jason Meland?

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